Chapter 4 – Ask Ask Ask
In review, we learned…
Chapter 1 Movement
Chapter 2 Creating and Sharing Lists
Chapter 3 Inquire of our soul and to trust the answer the soul delivers
Technique: ASK to confirm or verify suitability of a decision
The Scenario – Ask, Most people experience difficulty in this area whether with self or others.
Where did this difficulty begin? As a child were you aware of rejection and being denied? Because of being denied and experiencing rejection, the experience created self-reliance and timidity to “Ask.”
Life’s journey becomes a consciousness of “not having” or, lack.
Some resulting emotions are:
- Guilt – derived from proceeding without permission
- Horror – derived from punishment for proceeding
Mature Adults have “Permission Slips.”
- The “permission” to ask: although we may experience denial or rejection the point is the question was “ASKed.”
- Fear may set in due to the anxiety of having a strong, “No.”
A childhood of “No’s” may cause you to live in an adulthood of “Nevers.”
During Childhood, the “Ask” ability is:
- limited to the child’s immediate world of people
- Little “world” contact
- The “world” of a child develops and expands.
Because to the childhood development process:
- Asking may be uncomfortable
- Vulnerable feeling
- Experience a consciousness of being “Incomplete.”
Adulthood: The remedy for the childhood development process is:
- Be strong enough “Ask” others for things, items.
- A paradigm shift may be warranted, “Rejection is not personable.”
- Ask for items either professional or personal that you may need.
- Make inquiries from establishments
- Practice approach
- Develops confidence
In person: practice with a stranger at a:
- Department store or,
By asking for service, it helps to develop “the inner person” developing the self-image into a stronger individual.